In the
summer of 1977, while the Kansas City Royals were en route to winning 102
baseball games, some ten miles to the south of Royals Stadium I was playing a less beautiful and more obscure version of the national
pastime at Clark-Ketterman Fields, home
of the South Suburban Junior Baseball Association—“SSJBA” for short.
For me, the
summer of ’77 was in many ways not much different than that of the nine or ten
summers that preceded it. As reliable as homemade ice cream or fireworks on the Fourth of July, my summer
ritual of playing baseball in the SSJBA was a comfortable thread woven
throughout my childhood.
But while
the summer of ’77 and the baseball that went with it carried a reliable and familiar
feel, it also delivered a handful of small
transitions, as the certainties of youth were slowly unearthed, foreshadowing an
impending and unavoidable adulthood.
We were now
in high school, and the rosters for our age group were dwindling. The really good players were playing in leagues
filled with college-bound talent, while many of the other guys had by this time
lost interest and were spending their summers cultivating other pursuits.
The result
of this smaller talent pool was that I landed in unfamiliar territory, and ended up becoming teammates with guys that before I’d only played against—guys from rival high schools
like Ruskin and Hickman Mills. I had been familiar with many of their names—John
Galloway, Richard Hinton, George Fizer, Mike Newman, Jeff Leiding—and maybe even recognized a face or
two, but now they were teammates and I found them, surprisingly, to be much more likeable than in previous
years when we had worn different colors.
I have not
thought about many, if any, of those names in over thirty years. The last name
on my list—Jeff Leiding—came to mind last week when I learned that he had died
of a heart attack. He was 52, a year younger than me.
Few memories
have survived from that summer team in 1977. We had a pretty good team, and I
learned that teammates and alliances can be forged from among unfamiliar and
previously hostile tribes.
That could’ve
been that. And those names, including Jeff Leiding’s, would have been but footnotes from my childhood had not high
school football brought us back together just fourteen months after the
conclusion of that baseball season.
In
September, 1978 my Grandview Bulldogs were ranked No. 1 in Kansas City. Right behind us at No. 2 were the Hickman Mills
Cougars, and we met September 15—the third game of the season—to determine the
bragging rights not only for south KC, but for the entire metropolitan area.
Hickman
Mills was led by my old little league baseball teammate, Jeff Leiding.
Leiding, a junior linebacker and
fullback that year, was already one of the most highly touted high school players in the state. He would eventually
go on to be an All-American at Texas. I watched him on the Bob Hope special. He was an imposing figure, topping out at 6’3”
and 230 pounds.
The game was
a highly anticipated and much publicized contest. It drew a standing room crowd
at Grandview’s stadium, and was covered extensively in the Kansas City
media. All week our preparations took on
a new dimension as we tried to fathom the significance of the game that awaited
us Friday night.
I played
tight end for Grandview’s wishbone
offense. We were not known for
our passing game. I think I had four TDs on ten receptions that season. As the
wishbone dictates, ours was a running
offense, and it highlighted the talents of QB Rusty Hill, FB Andy Gibler, and
RBs Angelo Malone and David Haynes. Haynes would rush for over 2,000 yards that
season and later attend Arkansas. Hill would join him as a Razorback while
Gibler would go on to be a tight end at Mizzou and Malone a running back at
Northwest Missouri State. So there was a significant amount of talent on both
sides of the ball.
Hickman
Mills beat Grandview that night 14-7. It was a stinging defeat, the sort of
loss that feels like the death of a loved one.
There is a
lot that could be said about that game. I could write about injuries and
sicknesses and miscues and what might-have-been. These would simply be excuses,
the sorts of things that should have been put to rest three decades ago.
What remains
from that game for me is not the bitter gall of defeat, but the wonder of sport
itself and the kinship that is established among teammates and opponents alike.
As a tight
end in the wishbone offense, I was given the unenviable task of attempting to neutralize Jeff Leiding in his
role as linebacker that September night. It was an assignment that I did not
take lightly, and it was an assignment I would have gladly traded for a seat on
the sidelines. After the loss, I don’t remember thinking that I did well or
poorly against Leiding. I’m sure he made his share of tackles. The game seemed
to hinge on a turnover or two and our offense sputtering in general (probably
because of Leiding and the rest of their defense). After a loss like that you
just hurt, and don’t over analyze your own personal performance.
The
following Monday morning I was dreading reviewing the Hickman Mills game film.
It was a painful experience, like watching a video of your dog dying. When
concluded, Coach Bob Tavernaro said that
he would like to acknowledge one player who the coaching staff thought, after
reviewing the game film, did an exceptional job against the Cougars. As I
looked around, wondering, who they thought did a good job in this train-wreck
of a game, Coach called my name.
This was a
forgotten memory for me, one which by-and-large had laid dormant until I heard
of Leiding’s death. I don’t share it to pat myself on the back. I was a mediocre
football player by anyone’s standards.
I share this
memory because I think it represents the best there is about sports. Whether teammates or opponents, (or in the
case of Leiding who had been both), there is this kinship, this bond, that
transcends culture, that transcends class, that transcends ethnicity, that even transcends whether or not a guy is
personally likeable.
There is
this sort of duty we all have to make one another better. To encourage one
another to rise to the occasion. There is a code of honor that dictates we
respect an opponent by giving him our very best. I marvel that although it has been
over 30 years since I’ve played competitive sports, I still speak of these
duties in the present tense.
Jeff Leiding
and many others in that game in1978 went to much larger and more prestigious
stages than we were on that night. I’d like to think that a little bit of each
of us went with them. Hopefully we were all better because of the investment
from teammates and opponents alike. I know that night, Jeff Leiding made me a
better blocking tight end than I ever dared believe I could be. I hope in some
small way I made him a little bit better as well.
In Coach Bob
Tavernaro’s pre-game charge he told us—the assembled Grandview Bulldogs—that
whatever happened that night on that field we would remember for the rest of our lives. This was a true
statement.
Despite the
accuracy of Coach Tavernaro’s words, time and Providence have framed them,
forged them, and shown me two things. The first is that although that game and its
memories are forever etched upon me, that which was once important is not
Ultimate. The wound that laid raw on the morning of September 16, 1978, the
wound that we thought would haunt us to our graves, has healed, and has been
placed in its proper perspective along with all the other meaningful but
temporal pursuits of youth.
The second
thing I’ve been shown is that while all those that played in that game will
certainly remember its results for the rest of their lives, the length of days
of those lives will not be the same. Some of those lives—like the life of Jeff
Leiding, and the lives of my teammates Bill Burgess and Rusty Hill—from my
earthly, mortal, perspective, ended much too soon.
Thanks Fin, one of your best yet!
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